Renae Shoemack Renae Shoemack

Motivation Is Not Always the Problem

Many people assume they struggle because they “lack motivation.”

They tell themselves:

  • “I just need more discipline.”

  • “I should be trying harder.”

  • “Why can everyone else cope?”

  • “I know what I need to do, so why can’t I do it?”

But often, motivation is not actually the core issue.

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Renae Shoemack Renae Shoemack

Why High Achievers Struggle to Rest

But for many high-functioning adults, the deeper issue is not simply workload - it is the internal pressure that makes slowing down feel uncomfortable, unsafe or guilt-inducing in the first place.


You may appear capable externally.
You continue showing up to work, university, family responsibilities or daily life. Others may even describe you as organised, reliable or successful.

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Renae Shoemack Renae Shoemack

Introducing my New Niche: Perfectionism and People Pleasing

Recently, I chose a new niche to focus on in my practice - perfectionism and people pleasing.

This change came around for two reasons.

Mostly, because it resonates deeply with me and my own journey with mental health and anxiety. As a recovered people pleaser and perfectionist myself, I’m so familiar with these areas and how important it is to move away from them!

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